1. If you want to deserve approval, support it by your actions, avoid behaving dishonestly. 2. Some bad feelings, e.g. feeling jealous or envious or your rude behaviour can often cause quarrels. 3. Demonstrate grateful behaviour, pay more appreciation towards your grandparents and you will for sure avoid problems of misunderstanding with your elder relatives. 4. If you worry about your friends, support them in different situations, they will never betray you in your troubles.